"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SO. there is this HB8 that I found really attractive in my class last semester, but her ex- bf (1 year long relationship) is usually sit next to her, according to a few people I know that is her best friend now and dont have any other feeling besides a best friend. He is the biggest AFC of all time, and ultimate nice guy that always buy her food and give her rides etc.

Now this semester started, I have one class with her, but her ex is always with her. Then today I went into a class trying to get in even though it was full, unsuspectingly her ex and HB8 was in there. The only seat was next to her EX, or I have to stand for 3 hrs. So I can to, I got to know the dude. But didn't got a chance to talk to HB8. Should I play cool with the dude, since he the ultimate AFC and then make a move on HB8 or is that a bad idea. What do you guys recommend in this type of situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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aznxboi said:
SO. there is this HB8 that I found really attractive in my class last semester, but her ex- bf (1 year long relationship) is usually sit next to her, according to a few people I know that is her best friend now and dont have any other feeling besides a best friend. He is the biggest AFC of all time, and ultimate nice guy that always buy her food and give her rides etc.

Now this semester started, I have one class with her, but her ex is always with her. Then today I went into a class trying to get in even though it was full, unsuspectingly her ex and HB8 was in there. The only seat was next to her EX, or I have to stand for 3 hrs. So I can to, I got to know the dude. But didn't got a chance to talk to HB8. Should I play cool with the dude, since he the ultimate AFC and then make a move on HB8 or is that a bad idea. What do you guys recommend in this type of situation?
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Are you sure they're separated? For all you know, they're still having "ex" sex.

Move on the lady man, he's old news.
 
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well they broke up for over a year already, and she only hang out with her ex is because thats the only 'friend' she got because college just started. and her other friend into the whole frat thing, while she isn't. sooo, tuff situation.
 
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Stay away from *****es at your workplace or classroom. You are there to learn, not to pick up chicks. Trust me on this.
 
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