"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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SO. there is this HB8 that I found really attractive in my class last semester, but her ex- bf (1 year long relationship) is usually sit next to her, according to a few people I know that is her best friend now and dont have any other feeling besides a best friend. He is the biggest AFC of all time, and ultimate nice guy that always buy her food and give her rides etc.

Now this semester started, I have one class with her, but her ex is always with her. Then today I went into a class trying to get in even though it was full, unsuspectingly her ex and HB8 was in there. The only seat was next to her EX, or I have to stand for 3 hrs. So I can to, I got to know the dude. But didn't got a chance to talk to HB8. Should I play cool with the dude, since he the ultimate AFC and then make a move on HB8 or is that a bad idea. What do you guys recommend in this type of situation?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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aznxboi said:
SO. there is this HB8 that I found really attractive in my class last semester, but her ex- bf (1 year long relationship) is usually sit next to her, according to a few people I know that is her best friend now and dont have any other feeling besides a best friend. He is the biggest AFC of all time, and ultimate nice guy that always buy her food and give her rides etc.

Now this semester started, I have one class with her, but her ex is always with her. Then today I went into a class trying to get in even though it was full, unsuspectingly her ex and HB8 was in there. The only seat was next to her EX, or I have to stand for 3 hrs. So I can to, I got to know the dude. But didn't got a chance to talk to HB8. Should I play cool with the dude, since he the ultimate AFC and then make a move on HB8 or is that a bad idea. What do you guys recommend in this type of situation?
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Are you sure they're separated? For all you know, they're still having "ex" sex.

Move on the lady man, he's old news.
 
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well they broke up for over a year already, and she only hang out with her ex is because thats the only 'friend' she got because college just started. and her other friend into the whole frat thing, while she isn't. sooo, tuff situation.
 
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Stay away from *****es at your workplace or classroom. You are there to learn, not to pick up chicks. Trust me on this.
 
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