Colleague called me too nice

[RestUnknown]

Had a conversation with a colleague which was about women and if I had a girlfriend. I currently don't and she said it's probably because I'm too nice.

Well I've been raised by only my mom since I was twelve because of the death of my father. Also a very hard break-up when I was 21 probably has gotten me to where I am today. I am a typical nice guy, I step away from conflicts, try to talk to people about what they like, etc,...

Now I've read many of the books that I found trough this forum, but I am actually looking for that missing father figure book. Some kind of book that handles about this issue?

And yes this is another symptom I know, I keep on looking for that holy grail that will change my life, but I do hope there are some books on this subject around.

Thanks.

 

[marmel75]

The only thing you need is a mindset that you focus on getting what you want out of interactions with women, and to a larger degree life itself.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

At least now you have identified the problem.

Try not to worry too much about it.

Get some cool hobbies. Improve yourself. Start spinning plates.