Cold messaging through facebook

[sosumba]

Hey, If you were to find a girl through facebook either by friend suggestion or seing her in a random group would you tell her how you found her ("I got you as a friend suggestion and you looked interesting") or just proceed with the opener directly?

Also, I know a lot depends on my profile and my pics but how bag/good is the convestion ratio should I expect (is it like 10% give number)? I have not contacted many but I have recieved 0 phone numbers and many just ignore the messages without reading them (delivered but not read). I have tried different openers but it yields the same result. Some of the girls write a short answer once and then leave me on read.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Just be like "Hey you came across my feed and I thought you looked interesting so I wanted to say hello."

No need for being slick, just be direct and honest. It's a rare quality these days and I think most women appreciate it.

 

[Glassguy]

1.) Add them on fb by sending them a friend request. If they accept it...
2.) Wait 2 or 3 days and send her a message "Hey whats up"....thats it
3.) Either continue or eject based on her response and if she is willing to invest into a conversation.
4.) After 10 back and forth messages or so, simply say "I am going to such and such place Thursday evening. Why dont you join me for a drink".
5.) Anything but a yes is a no. If she doesnt accept or counter offer with a specific day, just stop messaging her.

Now this is what I do if a chick doesnt accept-

I do not unfriend them, but I do unfollow them. This way I never hit up a chick twice on fb. If I am unsure, I simply look to see if I follow her or not. If I do, its open season. If I dont, it means we had messaged before and didnt go anywhere so I dont waste my time messaging her again.

Hope this helps.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Banged through social media a lot with girls I have lots of mutual friends.

So this chick asked me how do you know me? I told her my puppy whispered her name to me.

Laughed. Move forward. False time constraint. Playful banter. Qualify her. Ask for digits. 20 minutes.

Plan to go to a place you want to go. Invite her.

Do this with hundreds of women. Convert 5% cuz I'm a regular guy.

The game remains the same whether social media or cold.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Well firstly your going to need a good profile with good pictures. I hope you have fun and exciting pictures of you going out.

Be direct and don't beat around the bush, no amount of beating around the bush is going to raise her interest. She is either attracted to you or not.