"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Cold approaching number 1 requirement
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Suspens
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devilkingx2
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wouldn't that just make you really desperate and lead to intense thirst?Suspens said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Suspens
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I would cal that motivation rather than desperation. But yeah there is some paradox here with the no fap challenge.devilkingx2 said:
How about stop being an unstable ass? no need to rage like that. I was specifically talking about wanking.marmel75 said:
mrgoodstuff
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Not getting laid coupled with fapping produces even worse than that.marmel75 said:
If you can be cool with being in a temporary drought and be productive and on your chase, eventually you will get someone to part her legs for you.
If your fapping your reinforcing failure, in your psychology and body language, it really is not good for you...
I too noticed when I took away the ability to "fap" by not doing it, my brain had to find a way to get laid, and it does.
Once you get laid it's much easier to get laid some more. It turns on some things in your psyche and creates a cool calm confidence of someone who is sexual.
mrgoodstuff
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Agree 110%. It's the mindset. And many of us fapping encourages feelings of failure and lack of willing female sexual partners. It is not a successful mindset. The blown load, bleeding down motivation and impetus for obtaining the real thing.Espi said:
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This actually does have an effect. Last time I did for about a week or 10days, women really were paying me more attention. I don't know if it's a change in a man's behaviours, scent, manner or what; probably a combination. But I really did notice a difference.
I'm starting again. Day one.