"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cold approaching in London

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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skeeloo

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this cold approache i did on baker street station.

! hb8 reading reading a news paper about the bomb scare, i asked hey can i read when your done, chick says ok, i then say hey how many casualties has been noted on this bomb blast, we took it on from there, chick says she scared blahblah blah . after that she says thats her own paper and i owe her for reading it i told her ill repay her by taking her out sometime and i number closed.

nows a great time for cold approaches in the tube especially the recent bomb blasts can give you a good opener. i tried the same thing on my way back but failed lol.

i kinda find cold approaches easier than club approaches.
 

fivefingers

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Can you tellme exactly what you said and how you closed ?
Originally posted by skeeloo
this cold approache i did on baker street station.

! hb8 reading reading a news paper about the bomb scare, i asked hey can i read when your done, chick says ok, i then say hey how many casualties has been noted on this bomb blast, we took it on from there, chick says she scared blahblah blah . after that she says thats her own paper and i owe her for reading it i told her ill repay her by taking her out sometime and i number closed.

nows a great time for cold approaches in the tube especially the recent bomb blasts can give you a good opener. i tried the same thing on my way back but failed lol.

i kinda find cold approaches easier than club approaches.
 

englishcrap

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Learn to get comfortable with approaching strangers. At least 3-5 times a day approach a woman and ask for simple information. Such as directions, the time etc. If your in the train ask her if she has finished with her copy of the metro or newspaper. Look into her eyes and smile.

Once you are comfortable with doing this take it to the next level.
 
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