"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cold approaching in London

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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skeeloo

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this cold approache i did on baker street station.

! hb8 reading reading a news paper about the bomb scare, i asked hey can i read when your done, chick says ok, i then say hey how many casualties has been noted on this bomb blast, we took it on from there, chick says she scared blahblah blah . after that she says thats her own paper and i owe her for reading it i told her ill repay her by taking her out sometime and i number closed.

nows a great time for cold approaches in the tube especially the recent bomb blasts can give you a good opener. i tried the same thing on my way back but failed lol.

i kinda find cold approaches easier than club approaches.
 

fivefingers

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Can you tellme exactly what you said and how you closed ?
Originally posted by skeeloo
this cold approache i did on baker street station.

! hb8 reading reading a news paper about the bomb scare, i asked hey can i read when your done, chick says ok, i then say hey how many casualties has been noted on this bomb blast, we took it on from there, chick says she scared blahblah blah . after that she says thats her own paper and i owe her for reading it i told her ill repay her by taking her out sometime and i number closed.

nows a great time for cold approaches in the tube especially the recent bomb blasts can give you a good opener. i tried the same thing on my way back but failed lol.

i kinda find cold approaches easier than club approaches.
 

englishcrap

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Learn to get comfortable with approaching strangers. At least 3-5 times a day approach a woman and ask for simple information. Such as directions, the time etc. If your in the train ask her if she has finished with her copy of the metro or newspaper. Look into her eyes and smile.

Once you are comfortable with doing this take it to the next level.
 
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