"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

cold approaching asian women

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

ubercat

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2015
Messages
3,671
Reaction score
2,309
Location
Australia
Really? The 3 I ve had were horizontal on the 2nd date. To be honest I would have been happy to wait longer. Maybe they be adapted to the local market
 

Prime_Beef

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2014
Messages
136
Reaction score
61
B aware a lot of these women were former ho's or otherwise made their living off men..hence the stereo type I told you of earlier. ..

Best to think of them as no better nor worse than whites..just different.
 

YawataNoKami

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 10, 2013
Messages
821
Reaction score
306
ubercat said:
Prison - have u dated Asian single mums? What was your experience?
In South Korea single mothers and divorce women are on their own. And guys there don't marry them.The women know men wouldn't even give single mothers a chance so women know they shouldn't put theirselves at risk. As in wh0ring around and having sex outside of marriage with just any guy because they think they are in "love".
 

Poon King

Banned
Joined
Nov 30, 2014
Messages
1,594
Reaction score
2,257
Location
Deep
InnerHappiness said:
Can't disagree more. If you think that most, if not all, women are only after what a man can do for them then you are approaching life negatively.

You know, you remind me of PHM. It's great that you have built a strong belief system. So strong that nothing can change it. You're only 30. Why not try to be humble so you can live, learn and experience what life has to offer? It's very hard to do so being closed minded.
Save this emo crap for your momma. Its not about "postive" or "negative".. its about REALITY.

I speak of reality. If you view it as negative.. that just shows your own weakness and emotional frailty.

Good luck viewing the world as a child. :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

InnerHappiness

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 6, 2012
Messages
145
Reaction score
9
Poon King said:
Save this emo crap for your momma. Its not about "postive" or "negative".. its about REALITY.

I speak of reality. If you view it as negative.. that just shows your own weakness and emotional frailty.

Good luck viewing the world as a child. :up:
If that's your perception of reality, no one can change your perspective. All I am trying to say is that there is a much more positive outlook on life and relationships. I'm curious as to how you got that rep up high. I'm thinking that veteran posters on these boards, such as (.) (.) who is banned gave that much cred.

Let me ask, are you genuinely happy with your path? Don't get me wrong, I've went down that path, but it's all meaningless if you're unable to sustain a good, caring relationship. Perhaps SS isn't about developing those, but you posted this on the MM section after all.

What is your end goal, Poon King?
 

Crates

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2015
Messages
10
Reaction score
0
Location
NYC area
ubercat said:
Hi All
Had 3 Asian g/fs and found them less drama and they seemed to know how to work with a man. And if it wasn't for issues round her kid I would have married the last one. Anyway they also don't mind older guys so its a good MM thread.

And finding local Asian women avoids scams and immigration issues.

Now all big cities have Asian neighborhoods. I was hoping ppl could share tactics for approaching there and also generally getting known in the area.

Obvious issues to overcome:
- language issues both real and faked
- peer pressure - other Asians giving her 'the look'
- changes in approach - e.g. much more AFC seems to work better
I learned how to say "I love you" in Korean 13 years ago, and 11 years ago in Mandarin. It works phenomenally well pretty consistently, as long as you correctly identify the language or ethnicity ahead of time. Enter a sexual state, walk up dominantly but slowly, making bedroom eyes, get just a touch too close, and put on your best pillowtalk late-night radio DJ voice.

"Wo ai ni."

*panties wet*

:cheer:
 

ubercat

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2015
Messages
3,671
Reaction score
2,309
Location
Australia
Thanks that's a bit more balls out than I normally play. Gonna have to try it.
 
Top