"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Really? The 3 I ve had were horizontal on the 2nd date. To be honest I would have been happy to wait longer. Maybe they be adapted to the local market
 

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B aware a lot of these women were former ho's or otherwise made their living off men..hence the stereo type I told you of earlier. ..

Best to think of them as no better nor worse than whites..just different.
 

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ubercat said:
Prison - have u dated Asian single mums? What was your experience?
In South Korea single mothers and divorce women are on their own. And guys there don't marry them.The women know men wouldn't even give single mothers a chance so women know they shouldn't put theirselves at risk. As in wh0ring around and having sex outside of marriage with just any guy because they think they are in "love".
 

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InnerHappiness said:
Can't disagree more. If you think that most, if not all, women are only after what a man can do for them then you are approaching life negatively.

You know, you remind me of PHM. It's great that you have built a strong belief system. So strong that nothing can change it. You're only 30. Why not try to be humble so you can live, learn and experience what life has to offer? It's very hard to do so being closed minded.
Save this emo crap for your momma. Its not about "postive" or "negative".. its about REALITY.

I speak of reality. If you view it as negative.. that just shows your own weakness and emotional frailty.

Good luck viewing the world as a child. :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Poon King said:
Save this emo crap for your momma. Its not about "postive" or "negative".. its about REALITY.

I speak of reality. If you view it as negative.. that just shows your own weakness and emotional frailty.

Good luck viewing the world as a child. :up:
If that's your perception of reality, no one can change your perspective. All I am trying to say is that there is a much more positive outlook on life and relationships. I'm curious as to how you got that rep up high. I'm thinking that veteran posters on these boards, such as (.) (.) who is banned gave that much cred.

Let me ask, are you genuinely happy with your path? Don't get me wrong, I've went down that path, but it's all meaningless if you're unable to sustain a good, caring relationship. Perhaps SS isn't about developing those, but you posted this on the MM section after all.

What is your end goal, Poon King?
 

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ubercat said:
Hi All
Had 3 Asian g/fs and found them less drama and they seemed to know how to work with a man. And if it wasn't for issues round her kid I would have married the last one. Anyway they also don't mind older guys so its a good MM thread.

And finding local Asian women avoids scams and immigration issues.

Now all big cities have Asian neighborhoods. I was hoping ppl could share tactics for approaching there and also generally getting known in the area.

Obvious issues to overcome:
- language issues both real and faked
- peer pressure - other Asians giving her 'the look'
- changes in approach - e.g. much more AFC seems to work better
I learned how to say "I love you" in Korean 13 years ago, and 11 years ago in Mandarin. It works phenomenally well pretty consistently, as long as you correctly identify the language or ethnicity ahead of time. Enter a sexual state, walk up dominantly but slowly, making bedroom eyes, get just a touch too close, and put on your best pillowtalk late-night radio DJ voice.

"Wo ai ni."

*panties wet*

:cheer:
 

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Thanks that's a bit more balls out than I normally play. Gonna have to try it.
 
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