"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Cold Approaches?

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DP they amount to anything I'm willing to man up and try because I have no social circle since I move around a lot any advice I'm female deprived
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've had so-so odds. Play the numbers game with cold approaches.

I'm seeing about 1 in 10, 1 in 15 is a good one. That's from the numbers I get, so I get 10-15 numbers and I get 1 good contact.

Matching up reasonably closely to Paul Janka's 11% rule - he sleeps with 11% of the girls who give him their number.

As far as numbers go, I probably do 5 approaches to get one number. I don't push very hard, though, I'll usually just sideswipe a comment and start a small conversation, and if I see interest in pursuing the conversation, I do. If I'm finding I have to ramble a bit, I just bail, which probably knocks out a chunk of people who I could get numbers from but just weren't breaking out of their comfort zones as easily as others.

As far as how to do it? I go for situational openers, I just spout out the first thing I think of. Still learning all that. Gets better/easier each time. Make a comment about their phone, I make a comment about them being anti-social and texting (easy one, but I bail a lot on this - but since it's easy, it works in situations where I can't think of something else). Seriously, just walking up to them, walking by them, saying something - you might get a few weird looks the first few times, but you'll quickly learn what boundaries you shouldn't shatter.

Should ask Demonpenz on that. He's pro with approaches.
 

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Thanks so do u do them anyplace or only certain spots
 

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Congrats. I have respect for anyone that cold approaches. It amounts to a ton of things and yes you will get more ladies. I approach anyone anytime anywhere, but you don't need to be obsessive like me. I would recommend you get your raw approaches up. I would also recommend sites that provide positive feedback and no BS. You will know a level of freedom like no other if you can beast anywhere and be ok with rejection. You will get wingmen, wing women along the way. Good luck and post your results. Keep in mind that it takes awhile to a lifestyle with cold approaches. Post your feelings anytime so you can work through emotions so you get better.
 

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Thanks a million I'm ready to give it a try
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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