"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Cold approaches on the street

Phuck Yiu

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I'm 17 and this is the year I want to lose my virginity. So far I went up to 3 girls in the past two weeks and 2 of them were "too old for me" and the other girl was 13. I would go to the mall but I go everywhere by myself and I don't want to look weird. That and a lot of the girls at the mall wear leggings and booty shorts which are my weakness. I want sex but not a relationship and it seems like the girls my age want a relationship and then sex.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I learned this a long time ago. If you see yourself as some weird dude that doesnt belong, people will think, "Hey, check out this weird dude!" However, if yourself as a cool guy thats out exploring then people will see you as that.
 

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I'm 17 and this is the year I want to lose my virginity. So far I went up to 3 girls in the past two weeks and 2 of them were "too old for me" and the other girl was 13. I would go to the mall but I go everywhere by myself and I don't want to look weird. That and a lot of the girls at the mall wear leggings and booty shorts which are my weakness. I want sex but not a relationship and it seems like the girls my age want a relationship and then sex.
You are putting too much presure on this stuff,answer this question....
What is under leggings?A55
What is under a workers appron? Same A55 etc
Get my point?. Pro tip:go for girls that you are not attracted to,higher success rate.
 

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Go form a relationship with them, have sex, then leave them. That's what I did because young girls only want relationships if they do anything sexual. Don't do it to any nice girls though, only the hoes.
 

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Go form a relationship with them, have sex, then leave them. That's what I did because young girls only want relationships if they do anything sexual. Don't do it to any nice girls though, only the hoes.
Do it to the nice girls.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Go form a relationship with them, have sex, then leave them. That's what I did because young girls only want relationships if they do anything sexual. Don't do it to any nice girls though, only the hoes.
Do it to the nice girls too,no one escapes the d1ck.
 

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Do it to the nice girls.
Do it to the nice girls too,no one escapes the d1ck.
Nah like getting into a relationship just to have sex and leave her? That **** will make them jaded as hell and then they'll justify that jadedness on thousands of other guys just because of one guy she liked. OP said he just wants to fvck and leave, I say to only do it to the hoes if he's gonna fake a relationship just for sex.
 
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What if I don't want a relationship and just sex? I'm probably giving up cold approach.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So how do I find a girl that's DTF? Or is hookup culture only for adults in their 20s?
 

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So how do I find a girl that's DTF? Or is hookup culture only for adults in their 20s?
Imma tell u one last time...a girl coming up to you telling u that she wants you to fk her only happens in p0rn not irl
 

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Imma wory about me,0 fks given about her or the other 1000 guys.
There's a problem with this mindset. It can come back to bite you in the ass because people talk. It may take a while, but it can negatively impact you. Men also become sissies if a woman breaks them down so then you got the whole environment calling for fvcking pvssies. And those pvssies are jealous of your success so they will try hard to stab you in the back.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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C00lAF

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There's a problem with this mindset. It can come back to bite you in the ass because people talk. It may take a while, but it can negatively impact you. Men also become sissies if a woman breaks them down so then you got the whole environment calling for fvcking pvssies. And those pvssies are jealous of your success so they will try hard to stab you in the back.
Easy.be discreet about it and date a woman outside your school\hood whatever
 

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Imma tell u one last time...a girl coming up to you telling u that she wants you to fk her only happens in p0rn not irl
But how do I get a girl to be DTF? Like when I approach how do I establish the idea of ****ing her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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