I'm 17 and this is the year I want to lose my virginity. So far I went up to 3 girls in the past two weeks and 2 of them were "too old for me" and the other girl was 13. I would go to the mall but I go everywhere by myself and I don't want to look weird. That and a lot of the girls at the mall wear leggings and booty shorts which are my weakness. I want sex but not a relationship and it seems like the girls my age want a relationship and then sex.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Cold approaches on the street
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I learned this a long time ago. If you see yourself as some weird dude that doesnt belong, people will think, "Hey, check out this weird dude!" However, if yourself as a cool guy thats out exploring then people will see you as that.
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You are putting too much presure on this stuff,answer this question....
What is under leggings?A55
What is under a workers appron? Same A55 etc
Get my point?. Pro tip:go for girls that you are not attracted to,higher success rate.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Go form a relationship with them, have sex, then leave them. That's what I did because young girls only want relationships if they do anything sexual. Don't do it to any nice girls though, only the hoes.
Do it to the nice girls.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
NSX-R
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Fck a prostitute. Problem solved.
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Do it to the nice girls too,no one escapes the d1ck.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Nah like getting into a relationship just to have sex and leave her? That **** will make them jaded as hell and then they'll justify that jadedness on thousands of other guys just because of one guy she liked. OP said he just wants to fvck and leave, I say to only do it to the hoes if he's gonna fake a relationship just for sex.
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Imma wory about me,0 fks given about her or the other 1000 guys.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Dude just adapt the sociopath method.
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Imma tell u one last time...a girl coming up to you telling u that she wants you to fk her only happens in p0rn not irl
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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There's a problem with this mindset. It can come back to bite you in the ass because people talk. It may take a while, but it can negatively impact you. Men also become sissies if a woman breaks them down so then you got the whole environment calling for fvcking pvssies. And those pvssies are jealous of your success so they will try hard to stab you in the back.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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What do you mean 'so?' You don't care if someone screws you over? That's literally the stupidest response I've ever heard to any single thing. Think outside the box.
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Easy.be discreet about it and date a woman outside your school\hood whatever
But how do I get a girl to be DTF? Like when I approach how do I establish the idea of ****ing her?
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Welcome to the club,read the dj bible.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Read the DJ Bible and the Book of Pook.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.