"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm 17 and this is the year I want to lose my virginity. So far I went up to 3 girls in the past two weeks and 2 of them were "too old for me" and the other girl was 13. I would go to the mall but I go everywhere by myself and I don't want to look weird. That and a lot of the girls at the mall wear leggings and booty shorts which are my weakness. I want sex but not a relationship and it seems like the girls my age want a relationship and then sex.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I learned this a long time ago. If you see yourself as some weird dude that doesnt belong, people will think, "Hey, check out this weird dude!" However, if yourself as a cool guy thats out exploring then people will see you as that.
 

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I'm 17 and this is the year I want to lose my virginity. So far I went up to 3 girls in the past two weeks and 2 of them were "too old for me" and the other girl was 13. I would go to the mall but I go everywhere by myself and I don't want to look weird. That and a lot of the girls at the mall wear leggings and booty shorts which are my weakness. I want sex but not a relationship and it seems like the girls my age want a relationship and then sex.
You are putting too much presure on this stuff,answer this question....
What is under leggings?A55
What is under a workers appron? Same A55 etc
Get my point?. Pro tip:go for girls that you are not attracted to,higher success rate.
 

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Go form a relationship with them, have sex, then leave them. That's what I did because young girls only want relationships if they do anything sexual. Don't do it to any nice girls though, only the hoes.
 

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Go form a relationship with them, have sex, then leave them. That's what I did because young girls only want relationships if they do anything sexual. Don't do it to any nice girls though, only the hoes.
Do it to the nice girls.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go form a relationship with them, have sex, then leave them. That's what I did because young girls only want relationships if they do anything sexual. Don't do it to any nice girls though, only the hoes.
Do it to the nice girls too,no one escapes the d1ck.
 

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Do it to the nice girls.
Do it to the nice girls too,no one escapes the d1ck.
Nah like getting into a relationship just to have sex and leave her? That **** will make them jaded as hell and then they'll justify that jadedness on thousands of other guys just because of one guy she liked. OP said he just wants to fvck and leave, I say to only do it to the hoes if he's gonna fake a relationship just for sex.
 
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What if I don't want a relationship and just sex? I'm probably giving up cold approach.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So how do I find a girl that's DTF? Or is hookup culture only for adults in their 20s?
 

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So how do I find a girl that's DTF? Or is hookup culture only for adults in their 20s?
Imma tell u one last time...a girl coming up to you telling u that she wants you to fk her only happens in p0rn not irl
 

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Imma wory about me,0 fks given about her or the other 1000 guys.
There's a problem with this mindset. It can come back to bite you in the ass because people talk. It may take a while, but it can negatively impact you. Men also become sissies if a woman breaks them down so then you got the whole environment calling for fvcking pvssies. And those pvssies are jealous of your success so they will try hard to stab you in the back.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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C00lAF

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There's a problem with this mindset. It can come back to bite you in the ass because people talk. It may take a while, but it can negatively impact you. Men also become sissies if a woman breaks them down so then you got the whole environment calling for fvcking pvssies. And those pvssies are jealous of your success so they will try hard to stab you in the back.
Easy.be discreet about it and date a woman outside your school\hood whatever
 

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Imma tell u one last time...a girl coming up to you telling u that she wants you to fk her only happens in p0rn not irl
But how do I get a girl to be DTF? Like when I approach how do I establish the idea of ****ing her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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