Cold Approach: Why Volume is Important

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

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It's easy to become disheartened, when things aren't going your way out in the field.

However, the problem is; guys (who have the balls to cold approach), are STILL, not approaching enough women.

Volume, is important.

It takes a lot, to get a little.

At the gym, how many sets/reps did it take, just for you to see small, incremental changes in your physique? A lot.

Was it worth it? Yup.

I'm about to demonstrate why volume, is important...in cold approach.

To help me demonstrate this, I'm calling my boy @Gamisch to the stage.

Bro, I'm gonna ask you a series of questions, and I want you to think about it, and provide your honest answers.

Now, there are no right or wrong answers..just as long as the answers are honest.

Cool?

 

[Plinco]

I can say from personal experience that making a direct cold approach with a girl I find attractive makes my day a little better.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

I can say from personal experience that making a direct cold approach with a girl I find attractive makes my day a little better.

Direct approach is always better.

Man, I got a female housemate. She is an attractive, dark-chocolate thang.

I had just moved in, and since I am back and forth between this house, and the houses I crash at with female friends...we hardly see each other.

But, I want to SMASH.

I finally had an opportunity to tell her what was on my mind...I went Mode One on her.

She was surprisedly shaken by it..but she told me she is a born-again Christian and is living her life for Christ...and has been celibate for 6 years since her divorce.

The conversation turned into a therapy session while she counseled me in attempts to help me resist sexual temptation.



My point is, even though I didn't get what I wanted, it felt good letting her know what was on my mind, and getting quick closure as a result.

I don't like lingering "what if" thoughts.

I like my rejections QUICK .

Anyways, since Gamisch is bullsh!ttin, mind if I use you for the purpose of this thread?

 

[plumber]

Direct approach is always better.

Man, I got a female housemate. She is an attractive, dark-chocolate thang.

I had just moved in, and since I am back and forth between this house, and the houses I crash at with female friends...we hardly see each other.

But, I want to SMASH.

I finally had an opportunity to tell her what was on my mind...I went Mode One on her.

She was surprisedly shaken by it..but she told me she is a born-again Christian and is living her life for Christ...and has been celibate for 6 years since her divorce.

The conversation turned into a therapy session while she counseled me in attempts to help me resist sexual temptation.



My point is, even though I didn't get what I wanted, it felt good letting her know what was on my mind, and getting quick closure as a result.

I don't like lingering "what if" thoughts.

I like my rejections QUICK .

Anyways, since Gamisch is bullsh!ttin, mind if I use you for the purpose of this thread?

that's a great housemate!!! and that story is not yet closed....

 

[Bokanovsky]

Direct approach is always better.

Man, I got a female housemate. She is an attractive, dark-chocolate thang.

I had just moved in, and since I am back and forth between this house, and the houses I crash at with female friends...we hardly see each other.

But, I want to SMASH.

Are you white? If you are and want to smash a "dark chocolate thang", you don't need pickup, game or anything of that sort. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

 

[Plinco]

Direct approach is always better.

Man, I got a female housemate. She is an attractive, dark-chocolate thang.

I had just moved in, and since I am back and forth between this house, and the houses I crash at with female friends...we hardly see each other.

But, I want to SMASH.

I finally had an opportunity to tell her what was on my mind...I went Mode One on her.

She was surprisedly shaken by it..but she told me she is a born-again Christian and is living her life for Christ...and has been celibate for 6 years since her divorce.

The conversation turned into a therapy session while she counseled me in attempts to help me resist sexual temptation.



My point is, even though I didn't get what I wanted, it felt good letting her know what was on my mind, and getting quick closure as a result.

I don't like lingering "what if" thoughts.

I like my rejections QUICK .

Anyways, since Gamisch is bullsh!ttin, mind if I use you for the purpose of this thread?

It's liberating when you're living life on your terms.

 

[blonde30]

I’ll always say it’s a numbers game. I guarantee if you ask 100 women out. You probably won’t even get past 50 before one gives you a shot. If you got rejected quite a lot and keep going. Sooner or later you’ll just adapt and get way better and more confident on how to approach. After a while there is no sting anymore. You’re not going to be everyone’s flavor but keep pushing.

I had an ex friend a long while back that had no fear at the clubs approaching women no matter what. They could be the hottest girl in there and even if they rolled their eyes and said not Interested or I got a boyfriend lines. He just moved on quick like it was nothing. I said man. How do you do it and it not bother you getting shot down(this was before me figuring things out). What was his reply. I got a girlfriend waiting for me at home. I got nothing to lose. I was like ahhh ok. Then eventually he met a girl there. Went home with her and that was that. Then I met his girlfriend and wow. What a sweetheart. The things she did for that clown. I just lost respect for him after that.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Are you white? If you are and want to smash a "dark chocolate thang", you don't need pickup, game or anything of that sort. It's like shooting fish in a barrel.

I'm Black .

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

I’ll always say it’s a numbers game. I guarantee if you ask 100 women out. You probably won’t even get past 50 before one gives you a shot.

If you hit the gym, lose fat, and build muscle(s), your chances will increase exponentially.

If you got rejected quite a lot and keep going. Sooner or later you’ll just adapt and get way better and more confident on how to approach. After a while there is no sting anymore. You’re not going to be everyone’s flavor but keep pushing.

There will usually always be a sting...the only difference is..

1. The degree of the sting.

2. How soon you recover from the sting.

But if you stick with it, both of those^ will decrease...every...single... time.

I had an ex friend a long while back that had no fear at the clubs approaching women no matter what. They could be the hottest girl in there and even if they rolled their eyes and said not Interested or I got a boyfriend lines. He just moved on quick like it was nothing. I said man. How do you do it and it not bother you getting shot down(this was before me figuring things out). What was his reply. I got a girlfriend waiting for me at home. I got nothing to lose. I was like ahhh ok. Then eventually he met a girl there. Went home with her and that was that. Then I met his girlfriend and wow. What a sweetheart. The things she did for that clown. I just lost respect for him after that.

Yeahhh, I lose respect for cheaters.

Either...

1. Be single, so you won't have to worry about cheating.

2. Get with a woman that will allow you to have fun, elsewhere.

Guys that are out there lying, deceiving, manipulating, creeping..

Those^ guys are pieces of shiit.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Aight, Plinco is also bullsh!ttin.

I need a volunteer so I can make the point, that I'm trying to make.

Anyone?

 

[Plinco]

Aight, Plinco is also bullsh!ttin.

I am? haha

I'm working my azz off bud

 

[Bingo-Player]

In certain environments where alcohol is involved I'd agree direct is the way to go and will get the best results

A setting like the gym if you go at the same times and see the same people and you get a label it can make things very awkward

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

I am? haha

I'm working my azz off bud

Why I guess you and Gamisch work for the same company.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

In certain environments where alcohol is involved I'd agree direct is the way to go and will get the best results

I agree 100%.

A setting like the gym if you go at the same times and see the same people and you get a label it can make things very awkward

I also agree 100%.