Cold Approach: Why Volume is Important

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

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It's easy to become disheartened, when things aren't going your way out in the field.

However, the problem is; guys (who have the balls to cold approach), are STILL, not approaching enough women.

Volume, is important.

It takes a lot, to get a little.

At the gym, how many sets/reps did it take, just for you to see small, incremental changes in your physique? A lot.

Was it worth it? Yup.

I'm about to demonstrate why volume, is important...in cold approach.

To help me demonstrate this, I'm calling my boy @Gamisch to the stage.

Bro, I'm gonna ask you a series of questions, and I want you to think about it, and provide your honest answers.

Now, there are no right or wrong answers..just as long as the answers are honest.

Cool?

 

[Plinco]

I can say from personal experience that making a direct cold approach with a girl I find attractive makes my day a little better.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

I can say from personal experience that making a direct cold approach with a girl I find attractive makes my day a little better.

Direct approach is always better.

Man, I got a female housemate. She is an attractive, dark-chocolate thang.

I had just moved in, and since I am back and forth between this house, and the houses I crash at with female friends...we hardly see each other.

But, I want to SMASH.

I finally had an opportunity to tell her what was on my mind...I went Mode One on her.

She was surprisedly shaken by it..but she told me she is a born-again Christian and is living her life for Christ...and has been celibate for 6 years since her divorce.

The conversation turned into a therapy session while she counseled me in attempts to help me resist sexual temptation.



My point is, even though I didn't get what I wanted, it felt good letting her know what was on my mind, and getting quick closure as a result.

I don't like lingering "what if" thoughts.

I like my rejections QUICK .

Anyways, since Gamisch is bullsh!ttin, mind if I use you for the purpose of this thread?

 

[plumber]

Direct approach is always better.

Man, I got a female housemate. She is an attractive, dark-chocolate thang.

I had just moved in, and since I am back and forth between this house, and the houses I crash at with female friends...we hardly see each other.

But, I want to SMASH.

I finally had an opportunity to tell her what was on my mind...I went Mode One on her.

She was surprisedly shaken by it..but she told me she is a born-again Christian and is living her life for Christ...and has been celibate for 6 years since her divorce.

The conversation turned into a therapy session while she counseled me in attempts to help me resist sexual temptation.



My point is, even though I didn't get what I wanted, it felt good letting her know what was on my mind, and getting quick closure as a result.

I don't like lingering "what if" thoughts.

I like my rejections QUICK .

Anyways, since Gamisch is bullsh!ttin, mind if I use you for the purpose of this thread?

that's a great housemate!!! and that story is not yet closed....