"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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- Thread starter Jay-X
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Originally posted by RaWBLooD
what your overall calories are, and your training and lifting habits are, i dont know.
but if you are not growing at all, who are you to say what is right and what isnt
i didn't state anything... i didn't say what's right and what's wrong... i just said that to me your intake looks low, since it didn't and doesn't work for me...
RaWBLooD
Master Don Juan
You dont know that it is the protein that is disabling you, and if youve had this problem and still have it, it is time to look into everything from your training to your eating and even your rest, to fix it, And i would love to help you if you are willing to take the initiative.
RaWBLooD
Master Don Juan
what do you eat exactly in a day, describe the food not the calories, personally id rather counter-reference that myself to find the calories you are eating, except packaged stuff u can list calories for that, like it says on pacakges of ham or sometimes chicken.
when do u eat it,
give up to the minute details on your workout nutrition
ie "i drink a shake 20 minutes into my workout and another right after"
or "i eat oatmeal 30-20 minutes before my workout then i sip on a gatorade mix of about scoops of the powdered gatorade, and finish off my workout with a shake (this brand of protein, and this is the amount of protein carbs etc)"
tell us about off days.
do you follow your eating habits to a t, or do u mis 6 hours of eating somtimes?
etc.....
oh and make a new thread.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.