"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Originally posted by RaWBLooD
what your overall calories are, and your training and lifting habits are, i dont know.
but if you are not growing at all, who are you to say what is right and what isnt
i didn't state anything... i didn't say what's right and what's wrong... i just said that to me your intake looks low, since it didn't and doesn't work for me...
RaWBLooD
Master Don Juan
You dont know that it is the protein that is disabling you, and if youve had this problem and still have it, it is time to look into everything from your training to your eating and even your rest, to fix it, And i would love to help you if you are willing to take the initiative.
RaWBLooD
Master Don Juan
what do you eat exactly in a day, describe the food not the calories, personally id rather counter-reference that myself to find the calories you are eating, except packaged stuff u can list calories for that, like it says on pacakges of ham or sometimes chicken.
when do u eat it,
give up to the minute details on your workout nutrition
ie "i drink a shake 20 minutes into my workout and another right after"
or "i eat oatmeal 30-20 minutes before my workout then i sip on a gatorade mix of about scoops of the powdered gatorade, and finish off my workout with a shake (this brand of protein, and this is the amount of protein carbs etc)"
tell us about off days.
do you follow your eating habits to a t, or do u mis 6 hours of eating somtimes?
etc.....
oh and make a new thread.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.