"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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lsu03

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so i recently got braces. a few of the coaches at my school said i should use it to my advantages to get the ladies. any truth and if so how?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't know how braces could possibly help your game in the short term. However, its a great investment. It may slow some people done for a while because they have wires on their teeth, but once they come off they have much better looking teeth, which is good.
 

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the coaches are being cruel. they are making fun of you. no girl wants a boy. braces denote boy. braces not good.
 

SinJester

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Braces are't a problem. Heaps of people have them. Including girls. Including hot girls.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I think they were saying that to make you feel better in all honesty. But, in honesty too, braces won't stop you from getting girls. Your insecurity of having braces will though.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

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GaryUranga

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I think they were saying that to make you feel better in all honesty. But, in honesty too, braces won't stop you from getting girls. Your insecurity of having braces will though.
ditto, Im gettign them soon myself and only in my lower teeth
 

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I got all my big teeth very early on therefore got my braces when I was 10 and finished them 2 years later, so I don't know loads about how high school girls think of them. What happened for me though when I had them is that they got me a lot of attention, (maybe because I was the only one with them at the time) and it was good for conversation, i.e if a girl asks to see them you could add some C+F like " sure, I know you can't resist my smile" etc..

They aren't a put off, maybe people don't really care too much and maybe sometimes they can crop up in conversation leading to good opportunities ;)
 

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these coaches are pretty much like best friends to me. i dont think they meant it to diss me.
 

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I can't see them helping you now, but I also had braces when I was younger. So, don't worry if things turn down a little, it'll end up being WELL worth it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Axcell

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It's normal, many people in high school have braces.
Remember, its not too much about physical appearance, it's how you present yourself.

If you have the frame of mind that the braces are going to ruin your game, it will ruin your game! However, if you have the attitude that "Hey, I'm wearing braces. If you have a problem, than leave", than you will be presenting yourself in a more DJ-like way. (Obviously don't say that line to somebody, but have that frame of mind.)

It's a good investment. You will have amazing teeth for life, that's awesome!
 
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