"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lsu03

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so i recently got braces. a few of the coaches at my school said i should use it to my advantages to get the ladies. any truth and if so how?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Drumstick

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I don't know how braces could possibly help your game in the short term. However, its a great investment. It may slow some people done for a while because they have wires on their teeth, but once they come off they have much better looking teeth, which is good.
 

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the coaches are being cruel. they are making fun of you. no girl wants a boy. braces denote boy. braces not good.
 

SinJester

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Braces are't a problem. Heaps of people have them. Including girls. Including hot girls.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I think they were saying that to make you feel better in all honesty. But, in honesty too, braces won't stop you from getting girls. Your insecurity of having braces will though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GaryUranga

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I think they were saying that to make you feel better in all honesty. But, in honesty too, braces won't stop you from getting girls. Your insecurity of having braces will though.
ditto, Im gettign them soon myself and only in my lower teeth
 

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I got all my big teeth very early on therefore got my braces when I was 10 and finished them 2 years later, so I don't know loads about how high school girls think of them. What happened for me though when I had them is that they got me a lot of attention, (maybe because I was the only one with them at the time) and it was good for conversation, i.e if a girl asks to see them you could add some C+F like " sure, I know you can't resist my smile" etc..

They aren't a put off, maybe people don't really care too much and maybe sometimes they can crop up in conversation leading to good opportunities ;)
 

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these coaches are pretty much like best friends to me. i dont think they meant it to diss me.
 

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I can't see them helping you now, but I also had braces when I was younger. So, don't worry if things turn down a little, it'll end up being WELL worth it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Axcell

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It's normal, many people in high school have braces.
Remember, its not too much about physical appearance, it's how you present yourself.

If you have the frame of mind that the braces are going to ruin your game, it will ruin your game! However, if you have the attitude that "Hey, I'm wearing braces. If you have a problem, than leave", than you will be presenting yourself in a more DJ-like way. (Obviously don't say that line to somebody, but have that frame of mind.)

It's a good investment. You will have amazing teeth for life, that's awesome!
 
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