"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lsu03

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so i recently got braces. a few of the coaches at my school said i should use it to my advantages to get the ladies. any truth and if so how?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Drumstick

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I don't know how braces could possibly help your game in the short term. However, its a great investment. It may slow some people done for a while because they have wires on their teeth, but once they come off they have much better looking teeth, which is good.
 

aldaris

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the coaches are being cruel. they are making fun of you. no girl wants a boy. braces denote boy. braces not good.
 

SinJester

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Braces are't a problem. Heaps of people have them. Including girls. Including hot girls.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I think they were saying that to make you feel better in all honesty. But, in honesty too, braces won't stop you from getting girls. Your insecurity of having braces will though.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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GaryUranga

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I think they were saying that to make you feel better in all honesty. But, in honesty too, braces won't stop you from getting girls. Your insecurity of having braces will though.
ditto, Im gettign them soon myself and only in my lower teeth
 

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I got all my big teeth very early on therefore got my braces when I was 10 and finished them 2 years later, so I don't know loads about how high school girls think of them. What happened for me though when I had them is that they got me a lot of attention, (maybe because I was the only one with them at the time) and it was good for conversation, i.e if a girl asks to see them you could add some C+F like " sure, I know you can't resist my smile" etc..

They aren't a put off, maybe people don't really care too much and maybe sometimes they can crop up in conversation leading to good opportunities ;)
 

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these coaches are pretty much like best friends to me. i dont think they meant it to diss me.
 

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I can't see them helping you now, but I also had braces when I was younger. So, don't worry if things turn down a little, it'll end up being WELL worth it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Axcell

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It's normal, many people in high school have braces.
Remember, its not too much about physical appearance, it's how you present yourself.

If you have the frame of mind that the braces are going to ruin your game, it will ruin your game! However, if you have the attitude that "Hey, I'm wearing braces. If you have a problem, than leave", than you will be presenting yourself in a more DJ-like way. (Obviously don't say that line to somebody, but have that frame of mind.)

It's a good investment. You will have amazing teeth for life, that's awesome!
 
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