Solomon
Master Don Juan
anybody dealt with this before, how do you handle this? I'm thinking about taking my profile down, thoughts?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Co-workers on POF
- Thread starter Solomon
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
oneboy21
Senior Don Juan
You don't need to take your profile down because you saw your co-worker Period.
you are there to find chicks, you do your search.
you are there to find chicks, you do your search.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
What's the coworker gonna do? Make fun of you for looking for a date on the same site where he/she is doing the same thing?
I saw some coworkers on OK Cupid. I blocked them (I think).
I saw some coworkers on OK Cupid. I blocked them (I think).
that reminds me of the time i logged on to okcupid and right underneath where it says: these women are interested in you!
Was a photo of my little sister!?!?!? (among other okcupid chicks)
got a good laugh at that.
when I saw her at thanksgiving I said hi there ****** (her okcupid name) and her eyes got huge and she yelled "shut up!"
heh heh
Was a photo of my little sister!?!?!? (among other okcupid chicks)
got a good laugh at that.
when I saw her at thanksgiving I said hi there ****** (her okcupid name) and her eyes got huge and she yelled "shut up!"
heh heh
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
the_stig
Senior Don Juan
I've bumped into co-workers, ex classmates, ex girlfriends.
Always awkward at first, but then... meh
I've got my profile hidden right now and I think that's the way i'll keep it. Not like girls really initiate messages so what's there to lose?
Always awkward at first, but then... meh
I've got my profile hidden right now and I think that's the way i'll keep it. Not like girls really initiate messages so what's there to lose?