“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Co-Worker flirt success

Dukester

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I had posted a thread about my co-worker, and us flirting, etc..

some of you guys had told me that i should leave it alone, and i did for a few days.

well, just yesterday, out of the blue, she comes into my office and starts talking to me. there is this college regulated party on campus next weekend, and guess what?
she asked if she could come with me!

i played the dj skills right, by saying:

"well, i dunno. i will have to think about that one, becasue i dont really know if i want to go to the fall fest with someone"

she looked a lil shocked at that one, and plus we hadnt really talked in like 3 days.

then at lunch, i told her i was going to go out to get some fast food. i asked her she wanted n e thing, and so i got her something.
i was switching up on the polite/nice guy, and the c&f. had her so confused, that by the end of the workday, she stopped me on my way out.

she was like, "hey, i need to know you really want to go to fall fest w/ me"
i replied, coolly, "umm, i'll check my sched, and see if i can book ya in"
i told her that i'd see her tomorrow (today), and she couldnt even say goodbye, she was at a loss of words

so i think i'm pretty much in w/ this co-worker chick, still havent gone 4 the # close, but in this case, dont really have to.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hot Ice

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Good work.
Keep us updated!
 

Don Juanabbe

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I see your age, you're only 18, I take it this job probably isn't that important. If not, then go for it.
 

Dukester

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no, this job is actually important.
i'm a co-op contractor for the Air Force Base
i work for a company called Defense Research Associates.
so, ya, it's pretty imp, clearances, and classified s***

this girl goes to the same college i do to, so...
i'll just see how things work out
 

strong like bull

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make no mistake, your career should be your number one priority. always focus on your grip.

with that being said, lifes too short to be brought down by regret and "what-ifs." if you can get away with it, have as much fun with her as you can. that "no co-workers" rule is very situational.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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