"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Co-Worker flirt success

Dukester

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I had posted a thread about my co-worker, and us flirting, etc..

some of you guys had told me that i should leave it alone, and i did for a few days.

well, just yesterday, out of the blue, she comes into my office and starts talking to me. there is this college regulated party on campus next weekend, and guess what?
she asked if she could come with me!

i played the dj skills right, by saying:

"well, i dunno. i will have to think about that one, becasue i dont really know if i want to go to the fall fest with someone"

she looked a lil shocked at that one, and plus we hadnt really talked in like 3 days.

then at lunch, i told her i was going to go out to get some fast food. i asked her she wanted n e thing, and so i got her something.
i was switching up on the polite/nice guy, and the c&f. had her so confused, that by the end of the workday, she stopped me on my way out.

she was like, "hey, i need to know you really want to go to fall fest w/ me"
i replied, coolly, "umm, i'll check my sched, and see if i can book ya in"
i told her that i'd see her tomorrow (today), and she couldnt even say goodbye, she was at a loss of words

so i think i'm pretty much in w/ this co-worker chick, still havent gone 4 the # close, but in this case, dont really have to.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Hot Ice

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Good work.
Keep us updated!
 

Don Juanabbe

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I see your age, you're only 18, I take it this job probably isn't that important. If not, then go for it.
 

Dukester

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no, this job is actually important.
i'm a co-op contractor for the Air Force Base
i work for a company called Defense Research Associates.
so, ya, it's pretty imp, clearances, and classified s***

this girl goes to the same college i do to, so...
i'll just see how things work out
 

strong like bull

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make no mistake, your career should be your number one priority. always focus on your grip.

with that being said, lifes too short to be brought down by regret and "what-ifs." if you can get away with it, have as much fun with her as you can. that "no co-workers" rule is very situational.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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