"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Co-Worker flirt success

Dukester

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I had posted a thread about my co-worker, and us flirting, etc..

some of you guys had told me that i should leave it alone, and i did for a few days.

well, just yesterday, out of the blue, she comes into my office and starts talking to me. there is this college regulated party on campus next weekend, and guess what?
she asked if she could come with me!

i played the dj skills right, by saying:

"well, i dunno. i will have to think about that one, becasue i dont really know if i want to go to the fall fest with someone"

she looked a lil shocked at that one, and plus we hadnt really talked in like 3 days.

then at lunch, i told her i was going to go out to get some fast food. i asked her she wanted n e thing, and so i got her something.
i was switching up on the polite/nice guy, and the c&f. had her so confused, that by the end of the workday, she stopped me on my way out.

she was like, "hey, i need to know you really want to go to fall fest w/ me"
i replied, coolly, "umm, i'll check my sched, and see if i can book ya in"
i told her that i'd see her tomorrow (today), and she couldnt even say goodbye, she was at a loss of words

so i think i'm pretty much in w/ this co-worker chick, still havent gone 4 the # close, but in this case, dont really have to.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hot Ice

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Good work.
Keep us updated!
 

Don Juanabbe

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I see your age, you're only 18, I take it this job probably isn't that important. If not, then go for it.
 

Dukester

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no, this job is actually important.
i'm a co-op contractor for the Air Force Base
i work for a company called Defense Research Associates.
so, ya, it's pretty imp, clearances, and classified s***

this girl goes to the same college i do to, so...
i'll just see how things work out
 

strong like bull

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make no mistake, your career should be your number one priority. always focus on your grip.

with that being said, lifes too short to be brought down by regret and "what-ifs." if you can get away with it, have as much fun with her as you can. that "no co-workers" rule is very situational.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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