betterthandead
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Nighthawk said:Meh, she's not that hot and he's not ugly or decrepit. If I saw this couple walking down the street I'd think nothing of it. Not to say his money wouldn't be attractive of course.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
bigjohnson said:She looks like a pretty nice package to me, and I'd imagine he has a wide selection of tail thrown at him daily so ods are good that she's bright and fun to be with as well as easy on the eyes.
When I see people saying he could do better without knowing the woman or even seeing her in person it makes me want to laugh.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She is the better looking of the two, but I see couples like this all of the time.spesmilitis said:There isn't a too big of a difference in their looks.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Give me a fvcking break.Mr. Wolf said:She's an HB5, 5.5 in the picture. The guy's a millionaire and that's the best he could do? Ok, I see, aiming for the stars, aka HB10, takes balls.
You're an idiot too.looks matter period! Ugly guys get ugly girls, average guys get average girls, and good looking guys get good looking girls. Its that simple. Bullet proof game is a myth.
Phyzzle said:I mean WTF people?? This chick is some sort of clone of that cheerleader on the show Heros.
So the hottest blonde the producers of that show could possibly find, out of every aspiring actress in LA, is an HB5.5?
For me she's hotter than that pic you've been posting, but not by a lot. She's probably got a PHd and genuis IQ though, so the package he's getting isn't so rough.Mr. Wolf said:.... Tell us how you'd HB rate that rat?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.