betterthandead
Senior Don Juan
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Nighthawk said:Meh, she's not that hot and he's not ugly or decrepit. If I saw this couple walking down the street I'd think nothing of it. Not to say his money wouldn't be attractive of course.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
bigjohnson said:She looks like a pretty nice package to me, and I'd imagine he has a wide selection of tail thrown at him daily so ods are good that she's bright and fun to be with as well as easy on the eyes.
When I see people saying he could do better without knowing the woman or even seeing her in person it makes me want to laugh.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She is the better looking of the two, but I see couples like this all of the time.spesmilitis said:There isn't a too big of a difference in their looks.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Give me a fvcking break.Mr. Wolf said:She's an HB5, 5.5 in the picture. The guy's a millionaire and that's the best he could do? Ok, I see, aiming for the stars, aka HB10, takes balls.
You're an idiot too.looks matter period! Ugly guys get ugly girls, average guys get average girls, and good looking guys get good looking girls. Its that simple. Bullet proof game is a myth.
Phyzzle said:I mean WTF people?? This chick is some sort of clone of that cheerleader on the show Heros.
So the hottest blonde the producers of that show could possibly find, out of every aspiring actress in LA, is an HB5.5?
For me she's hotter than that pic you've been posting, but not by a lot. She's probably got a PHd and genuis IQ though, so the package he's getting isn't so rough.Mr. Wolf said:.... Tell us how you'd HB rate that rat?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.