betterthandead
Senior Don Juan
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nighthawk said:Meh, she's not that hot and he's not ugly or decrepit. If I saw this couple walking down the street I'd think nothing of it. Not to say his money wouldn't be attractive of course.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
bigjohnson said:She looks like a pretty nice package to me, and I'd imagine he has a wide selection of tail thrown at him daily so ods are good that she's bright and fun to be with as well as easy on the eyes.
When I see people saying he could do better without knowing the woman or even seeing her in person it makes me want to laugh.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She is the better looking of the two, but I see couples like this all of the time.spesmilitis said:There isn't a too big of a difference in their looks.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Give me a fvcking break.Mr. Wolf said:She's an HB5, 5.5 in the picture. The guy's a millionaire and that's the best he could do? Ok, I see, aiming for the stars, aka HB10, takes balls.
You're an idiot too.looks matter period! Ugly guys get ugly girls, average guys get average girls, and good looking guys get good looking girls. Its that simple. Bullet proof game is a myth.
Phyzzle said:I mean WTF people?? This chick is some sort of clone of that cheerleader on the show Heros.
So the hottest blonde the producers of that show could possibly find, out of every aspiring actress in LA, is an HB5.5?
For me she's hotter than that pic you've been posting, but not by a lot. She's probably got a PHd and genuis IQ though, so the package he's getting isn't so rough.Mr. Wolf said:.... Tell us how you'd HB rate that rat?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.