“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I've been texting and talking to a woman on the phone I met on OLD, but it seems she is no longer responding to me. How can I salvage this? I really like her. Should I wait to contact her, and if so, for how long? She is a single mother, and I know she is especially busy this time of year with the holidays. Tomorrow is her birthday. Should I contact her late in the day tomorrow and wish her a happy birthday, or wait longer to contact her?
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The point of online dating is to either meet up for long-term dating, get their guts rearranged in casual dating (lol), or just get validation. It rarely turns into a pen-pal situation.

If you haven’t asked her out yet, chances are someone else has taken your top spot.

If you were the last one to message her, I wouldn’t double-text, not even for a birthday. However, if she does reach out, make sure to ask her out soon. Also, talk to more women so you do not get oneitis, gain outcome independence, and prevent a scarcity mentality.
 
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Next.

Especially on OLD the turnover is huge. You gotta escalate fast.

You can always throw a hailmary and CALL her...just don't expect anything from it
 
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Ironically the way that works best is by not trying to salvage it and work on finding other women.
 
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Straight up troll. He mentions all the triggers to incite a riot from this forum!
 
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Her interest level isn't high enough. There is nothing to salvage. Find more girls.

How long did you spend talking to her?
 
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