"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Clubbing tips?

MrS

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Hey fellas.
Decided to take the dive, go to a popular night club, I don't usually do that since I dislike the crap loud music they play.
Going to go out, have a good time with all my bros, but also might catch some tail.
Any tips for picking up girls in a club?
Eye contact, kino, have a good time not emphasize on getting a girl, anything else I should watch out for at clubs?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Daddy The Pimp

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Ill list most important things to be king of club [ not in order ] :

Confidence

Having fun

Laughing

Pre Selection - Having other girls sorrounding you

Social Proof

Dressing good , Standing out from other guys

etc etc .


Use search feature for some great threads about clubbin .

Also go to DJ BIBLE . Also , i think mpimpin have a great thread about clubbin called alcohol guide .
 

MrS

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I know a bunch of girls going, good job with that, I forgot about their value.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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I have a question

how do you approach girls at the club if you are going alone? I don't work Friday mornings, and most of my friends do, so on Thursdays I like to hit up the club but without them it's a different experience. You can't appear active as they don't see you talking to friends. Is it a bad idea to go to the club alone?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Make things happen. Make people laugh. Talk to everyone. Don't dress like the next chump. Set yourself apart. Be outgoing. Be ballsy. Get my drift?
 

Daddy The Pimp

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I have a question

how do you approach girls at the club if you are going alone? I don't work Friday mornings, and most of my friends do, so on Thursdays I like to hit up the club but without them it's a different experience. You can't appear active as they don't see you talking to friends. Is it a bad idea to go to the club alone?
No , its not bad idea . I know a lot of guys that go SOLO in clubs . Its good way to make friends . But remember , the first second that you enter the club , you must approach and approach and approach . All the time . You dont wanna be seen alone . Use false time constrain too . You dont want them thinking " this guy is gonna stick to us for the whole night , lets shut him down in the begining . Tell them you're leaving in seconds to meet your friends .
 
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