"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Clubbing tips?

MrS

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Hey fellas.
Decided to take the dive, go to a popular night club, I don't usually do that since I dislike the crap loud music they play.
Going to go out, have a good time with all my bros, but also might catch some tail.
Any tips for picking up girls in a club?
Eye contact, kino, have a good time not emphasize on getting a girl, anything else I should watch out for at clubs?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Daddy The Pimp

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Ill list most important things to be king of club [ not in order ] :

Confidence

Having fun

Laughing

Pre Selection - Having other girls sorrounding you

Social Proof

Dressing good , Standing out from other guys

etc etc .


Use search feature for some great threads about clubbin .

Also go to DJ BIBLE . Also , i think mpimpin have a great thread about clubbin called alcohol guide .
 

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I know a bunch of girls going, good job with that, I forgot about their value.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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I have a question

how do you approach girls at the club if you are going alone? I don't work Friday mornings, and most of my friends do, so on Thursdays I like to hit up the club but without them it's a different experience. You can't appear active as they don't see you talking to friends. Is it a bad idea to go to the club alone?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Make things happen. Make people laugh. Talk to everyone. Don't dress like the next chump. Set yourself apart. Be outgoing. Be ballsy. Get my drift?
 

Daddy The Pimp

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I have a question

how do you approach girls at the club if you are going alone? I don't work Friday mornings, and most of my friends do, so on Thursdays I like to hit up the club but without them it's a different experience. You can't appear active as they don't see you talking to friends. Is it a bad idea to go to the club alone?
No , its not bad idea . I know a lot of guys that go SOLO in clubs . Its good way to make friends . But remember , the first second that you enter the club , you must approach and approach and approach . All the time . You dont wanna be seen alone . Use false time constrain too . You dont want them thinking " this guy is gonna stick to us for the whole night , lets shut him down in the begining . Tell them you're leaving in seconds to meet your friends .
 
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