"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Clubbing tips?

MrS

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Hey fellas.
Decided to take the dive, go to a popular night club, I don't usually do that since I dislike the crap loud music they play.
Going to go out, have a good time with all my bros, but also might catch some tail.
Any tips for picking up girls in a club?
Eye contact, kino, have a good time not emphasize on getting a girl, anything else I should watch out for at clubs?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ill list most important things to be king of club [ not in order ] :

Confidence

Having fun

Laughing

Pre Selection - Having other girls sorrounding you

Social Proof

Dressing good , Standing out from other guys

etc etc .


Use search feature for some great threads about clubbin .

Also go to DJ BIBLE . Also , i think mpimpin have a great thread about clubbin called alcohol guide .
 

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I know a bunch of girls going, good job with that, I forgot about their value.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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I have a question

how do you approach girls at the club if you are going alone? I don't work Friday mornings, and most of my friends do, so on Thursdays I like to hit up the club but without them it's a different experience. You can't appear active as they don't see you talking to friends. Is it a bad idea to go to the club alone?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Make things happen. Make people laugh. Talk to everyone. Don't dress like the next chump. Set yourself apart. Be outgoing. Be ballsy. Get my drift?
 

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I have a question

how do you approach girls at the club if you are going alone? I don't work Friday mornings, and most of my friends do, so on Thursdays I like to hit up the club but without them it's a different experience. You can't appear active as they don't see you talking to friends. Is it a bad idea to go to the club alone?
No , its not bad idea . I know a lot of guys that go SOLO in clubs . Its good way to make friends . But remember , the first second that you enter the club , you must approach and approach and approach . All the time . You dont wanna be seen alone . Use false time constrain too . You dont want them thinking " this guy is gonna stick to us for the whole night , lets shut him down in the begining . Tell them you're leaving in seconds to meet your friends .
 
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