"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Clubbing question - Spotting potential targets

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Now, I know I am way too young to go clubbing (got another, what, 5 years ahead of me?), but this question has been bugging be as of late.

How do you know if a HB is out to get laid on that night, or if she's there to have fun?

I'm asking because it would be beneficial to minimize losses from the start, and try to PU only those who are PUable.

As I've never gone clubbing, no immediate responses to the question come to mind. The way they dress? Don't all people try to dress nice when going clubbing? How bout the number of friends? I hear that groups of up to 4 are considered approachable.

Or do you try to get EC, and see if she responds well, only then making the approach?

What do you guys with experience think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FrankWank

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Technically they all are out to get laid. Thats why men and women both go out.......to get laid

Tip: Look for the hor's, that are around at closing time. Most vulnerable:)
 

Dapper Swindler

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I disagree. Some girls go to dance clubs and do not want to get laid. Sometimes they go and do not even want to dance with guys.

I was explaining in another thread about how there are so many factors in a dance club that it can be impossible to accurately gauge the situation sometimes. Just don't take rejection seriously in places like that.
 

Albion4

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You can tell what a girl is looking for by the way she looks at you. Just keep your eyes open and keep your mind sharp.

You're sitting at some club hanging on the bar with a drink in hand. You notice hottie at the other side of the bar look at you, quickly scan your body, she comes back up and meets your eyes with her's and gives you a nice coy smile. That's you're cue to take the next step; walk over buy her a drink, tell her a joke, get down on all fours and gnaw on her ankle, whatever tips your tizzle.

The number one short coming that I have noticed amongst younger guys (21 to 25) at bars is that they can't pace their drinking. They get so blisteringly drunk that when it comes time to talk to a girl all that comes out is useless banter. Learn that it's ok to tell your buddies "Naw, I don't want another shot." when they offer. Pace your drinking with a soda or juice every other drink. This will not only give you a better chance with women, it will save you from spending the night in jail.

-Al
 

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Maybe I'm just lucky but I'll stand by the bar and I'll spot them make a beeline in my direction and start tryina glance over at me...

Alternatively, one of my friends will start talkin with them and they'll ask "Who's your friend"

Its fallacy that every woman is out to be picked up... but a cool way in if you have a more passive target is to talk to a friend of hers whilst she's isolated and ask who her friend is...

Besides a circumstance which is plainly obvious there is no set way to know who is there for what... you've got to make strides, speak to friends of hers, speak to her direct, and you will get rejected some time its just a fact...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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