“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Clubbing question - Spotting potential targets

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Now, I know I am way too young to go clubbing (got another, what, 5 years ahead of me?), but this question has been bugging be as of late.

How do you know if a HB is out to get laid on that night, or if she's there to have fun?

I'm asking because it would be beneficial to minimize losses from the start, and try to PU only those who are PUable.

As I've never gone clubbing, no immediate responses to the question come to mind. The way they dress? Don't all people try to dress nice when going clubbing? How bout the number of friends? I hear that groups of up to 4 are considered approachable.

Or do you try to get EC, and see if she responds well, only then making the approach?

What do you guys with experience think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FrankWank

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Technically they all are out to get laid. Thats why men and women both go out.......to get laid

Tip: Look for the hor's, that are around at closing time. Most vulnerable:)
 

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I disagree. Some girls go to dance clubs and do not want to get laid. Sometimes they go and do not even want to dance with guys.

I was explaining in another thread about how there are so many factors in a dance club that it can be impossible to accurately gauge the situation sometimes. Just don't take rejection seriously in places like that.
 

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You can tell what a girl is looking for by the way she looks at you. Just keep your eyes open and keep your mind sharp.

You're sitting at some club hanging on the bar with a drink in hand. You notice hottie at the other side of the bar look at you, quickly scan your body, she comes back up and meets your eyes with her's and gives you a nice coy smile. That's you're cue to take the next step; walk over buy her a drink, tell her a joke, get down on all fours and gnaw on her ankle, whatever tips your tizzle.

The number one short coming that I have noticed amongst younger guys (21 to 25) at bars is that they can't pace their drinking. They get so blisteringly drunk that when it comes time to talk to a girl all that comes out is useless banter. Learn that it's ok to tell your buddies "Naw, I don't want another shot." when they offer. Pace your drinking with a soda or juice every other drink. This will not only give you a better chance with women, it will save you from spending the night in jail.

-Al
 

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Maybe I'm just lucky but I'll stand by the bar and I'll spot them make a beeline in my direction and start tryina glance over at me...

Alternatively, one of my friends will start talkin with them and they'll ask "Who's your friend"

Its fallacy that every woman is out to be picked up... but a cool way in if you have a more passive target is to talk to a friend of hers whilst she's isolated and ask who her friend is...

Besides a circumstance which is plainly obvious there is no set way to know who is there for what... you've got to make strides, speak to friends of hers, speak to her direct, and you will get rejected some time its just a fact...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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