"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Clubbin' eh?

Bluesteak

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Alright here's the deal guys, a friend of mine invited me to go with him on Friday to drive up to University of California Riverside to see his GF. We will be spending the night Friday and Saturday in his gf's dorm room. He says his gf has a hot roommate plus he says we are going to go clubbing in riverside with his gf and 6 of her friends from her dorm!!! This leaves alot of room to game it on any of the ones I like and it also means automatic escalation when we go back to the dorms for the night. Any tips guys? Ive never been clubbing and need some advice. And plus I dont want to be sleeping on the floor when my friend and his gf are gettin it on, so hopefully if I play my cards right I can sleep in one of the hb's beds!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Paintballguy

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Have some drinks, just don't get too sloshed. And just go out and have fun. Don't be afraid to dance with any of the chicks. If you play your cards right, you will be in for a fun night.
 

Randallpink83

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how are you gonna get into the club? you're under age and all. Do they have connections or something? well no big deal either way, just curious.
 

Bluesteak

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18 and over clubs... I know it sounds gay, but there's supposed to be Tons of chicks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Randallpink83

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oh well there is going to be a lot of dancing then... just get ready to grind... In my experience 18 and over clubs are more "grind crazy" than most other clubs.

But 18+ clubs are fun. Lots of energy a sober sexual tension :rockon:
 
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