"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Clubbin' eh?

Bluesteak

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Alright here's the deal guys, a friend of mine invited me to go with him on Friday to drive up to University of California Riverside to see his GF. We will be spending the night Friday and Saturday in his gf's dorm room. He says his gf has a hot roommate plus he says we are going to go clubbing in riverside with his gf and 6 of her friends from her dorm!!! This leaves alot of room to game it on any of the ones I like and it also means automatic escalation when we go back to the dorms for the night. Any tips guys? Ive never been clubbing and need some advice. And plus I dont want to be sleeping on the floor when my friend and his gf are gettin it on, so hopefully if I play my cards right I can sleep in one of the hb's beds!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Paintballguy

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Have some drinks, just don't get too sloshed. And just go out and have fun. Don't be afraid to dance with any of the chicks. If you play your cards right, you will be in for a fun night.
 

Randallpink83

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how are you gonna get into the club? you're under age and all. Do they have connections or something? well no big deal either way, just curious.
 

Bluesteak

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18 and over clubs... I know it sounds gay, but there's supposed to be Tons of chicks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Randallpink83

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oh well there is going to be a lot of dancing then... just get ready to grind... In my experience 18 and over clubs are more "grind crazy" than most other clubs.

But 18+ clubs are fun. Lots of energy a sober sexual tension :rockon:
 
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