"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Clubbin' eh?

Bluesteak

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Alright here's the deal guys, a friend of mine invited me to go with him on Friday to drive up to University of California Riverside to see his GF. We will be spending the night Friday and Saturday in his gf's dorm room. He says his gf has a hot roommate plus he says we are going to go clubbing in riverside with his gf and 6 of her friends from her dorm!!! This leaves alot of room to game it on any of the ones I like and it also means automatic escalation when we go back to the dorms for the night. Any tips guys? Ive never been clubbing and need some advice. And plus I dont want to be sleeping on the floor when my friend and his gf are gettin it on, so hopefully if I play my cards right I can sleep in one of the hb's beds!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Paintballguy

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Have some drinks, just don't get too sloshed. And just go out and have fun. Don't be afraid to dance with any of the chicks. If you play your cards right, you will be in for a fun night.
 

Randallpink83

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how are you gonna get into the club? you're under age and all. Do they have connections or something? well no big deal either way, just curious.
 

Bluesteak

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18 and over clubs... I know it sounds gay, but there's supposed to be Tons of chicks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Randallpink83

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oh well there is going to be a lot of dancing then... just get ready to grind... In my experience 18 and over clubs are more "grind crazy" than most other clubs.

But 18+ clubs are fun. Lots of energy a sober sexual tension :rockon:
 
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