"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Club is too Loud; trouble starting convo

KneghtRyder

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The Girls that goto the clubs in my area are single and LOOKING to Mingle; at least it seems to be the social norm.


My problem, is the club is loud, I even wear ear plugs. I guess I can try to take them off.

Is there any better advice.....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What happens when you do what the DJB says about sarging in a loud club?
 

musclyjerk

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You wear ear-plugs . . . are you pulling our plonkers! ?

Clubs aren't for talking, they're for interacting with chicks using your eyes, body and generally having fun, making out with random chicks, hooking up or whatever.

I can't remember the last time I talked in a club - it's definately not a requirement for 'scoring!', and it kind-of makes you look like you don't know what you're doing if you're trying to talk to a chick in a club.

Talk with your actions in such places, it's more powerful and persuasive anyway!

The Muscly Jerk
 

Craig Reeves

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Try this....

Stay away from the dance floor, for one. Don't approach on the dance floor as the girls are usually distracted by everything known to man.

Find a busy area at the BAR and setup shop. Stay at the bar and chat with the hired guns as they get in proximity to you. Make friends with them. Make friends with them whether they be male or female. Make friends with the bouncers and servers as well; again, male or female. This should be your foremost priority - you'll find out why once you try this. Trust me.

Chat up women that show up to your area of the bar. That way, the women are coming to YOU and you're not having to pull them from all the distraction on the dance floor. You ALSO have the (most of the time) attractive hired guns that you can introduce them to.

Hope that helps,
-Craig
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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