"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Club is too Loud; trouble starting convo

KneghtRyder

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The Girls that goto the clubs in my area are single and LOOKING to Mingle; at least it seems to be the social norm.


My problem, is the club is loud, I even wear ear plugs. I guess I can try to take them off.

Is there any better advice.....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What happens when you do what the DJB says about sarging in a loud club?
 

musclyjerk

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You wear ear-plugs . . . are you pulling our plonkers! ?

Clubs aren't for talking, they're for interacting with chicks using your eyes, body and generally having fun, making out with random chicks, hooking up or whatever.

I can't remember the last time I talked in a club - it's definately not a requirement for 'scoring!', and it kind-of makes you look like you don't know what you're doing if you're trying to talk to a chick in a club.

Talk with your actions in such places, it's more powerful and persuasive anyway!

The Muscly Jerk
 

Craig Reeves

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Try this....

Stay away from the dance floor, for one. Don't approach on the dance floor as the girls are usually distracted by everything known to man.

Find a busy area at the BAR and setup shop. Stay at the bar and chat with the hired guns as they get in proximity to you. Make friends with them. Make friends with them whether they be male or female. Make friends with the bouncers and servers as well; again, male or female. This should be your foremost priority - you'll find out why once you try this. Trust me.

Chat up women that show up to your area of the bar. That way, the women are coming to YOU and you're not having to pull them from all the distraction on the dance floor. You ALSO have the (most of the time) attractive hired guns that you can introduce them to.

Hope that helps,
-Craig
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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