"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Club is too Loud; trouble starting convo

KneghtRyder

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The Girls that goto the clubs in my area are single and LOOKING to Mingle; at least it seems to be the social norm.


My problem, is the club is loud, I even wear ear plugs. I guess I can try to take them off.

Is there any better advice.....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What happens when you do what the DJB says about sarging in a loud club?
 

musclyjerk

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You wear ear-plugs . . . are you pulling our plonkers! ?

Clubs aren't for talking, they're for interacting with chicks using your eyes, body and generally having fun, making out with random chicks, hooking up or whatever.

I can't remember the last time I talked in a club - it's definately not a requirement for 'scoring!', and it kind-of makes you look like you don't know what you're doing if you're trying to talk to a chick in a club.

Talk with your actions in such places, it's more powerful and persuasive anyway!

The Muscly Jerk
 

Craig Reeves

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Try this....

Stay away from the dance floor, for one. Don't approach on the dance floor as the girls are usually distracted by everything known to man.

Find a busy area at the BAR and setup shop. Stay at the bar and chat with the hired guns as they get in proximity to you. Make friends with them. Make friends with them whether they be male or female. Make friends with the bouncers and servers as well; again, male or female. This should be your foremost priority - you'll find out why once you try this. Trust me.

Chat up women that show up to your area of the bar. That way, the women are coming to YOU and you're not having to pull them from all the distraction on the dance floor. You ALSO have the (most of the time) attractive hired guns that you can introduce them to.

Hope that helps,
-Craig
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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