"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Club is too Loud; trouble starting convo

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KneghtRyder

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The Girls that goto the clubs in my area are single and LOOKING to Mingle; at least it seems to be the social norm.


My problem, is the club is loud, I even wear ear plugs. I guess I can try to take them off.

Is there any better advice.....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What happens when you do what the DJB says about sarging in a loud club?
 
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musclyjerk

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You wear ear-plugs . . . are you pulling our plonkers! ?

Clubs aren't for talking, they're for interacting with chicks using your eyes, body and generally having fun, making out with random chicks, hooking up or whatever.

I can't remember the last time I talked in a club - it's definately not a requirement for 'scoring!', and it kind-of makes you look like you don't know what you're doing if you're trying to talk to a chick in a club.

Talk with your actions in such places, it's more powerful and persuasive anyway!

The Muscly Jerk
 
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Craig Reeves

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Try this....

Stay away from the dance floor, for one. Don't approach on the dance floor as the girls are usually distracted by everything known to man.

Find a busy area at the BAR and setup shop. Stay at the bar and chat with the hired guns as they get in proximity to you. Make friends with them. Make friends with them whether they be male or female. Make friends with the bouncers and servers as well; again, male or female. This should be your foremost priority - you'll find out why once you try this. Trust me.

Chat up women that show up to your area of the bar. That way, the women are coming to YOU and you're not having to pull them from all the distraction on the dance floor. You ALSO have the (most of the time) attractive hired guns that you can introduce them to.

Hope that helps,
-Craig
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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