"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Club Game: Toronto
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Honestly, I think night game is the hardest. I have found that day game and online game are easier. Girls in clubs/bars expect to get hit on and are ready for it. They have the slVt shield up.
Solomon
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1.Buy Bottles
2.Find a girl and pay for hernight
3. makea songand cry about her
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Toronto is still English Canadian (so boring) city
However, the club/lounge/resto scène is exploding.
French Canadians from Québec (montreal) are taking over downtown nightlife
Actually you'll find in Toronto most of Canada unique bar (once in a life time and the only kind in the country). Toronto clubs are starting branch in Montreal (to tell you)
So learn french for social proof
Learn the top new places
Go there, aim for the lay
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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That being said, I firmly believe a confident man can pull anywhere if he's giving off the right vibe. I've pulled in sleepy village pubs before, where there might be two or three attractive women visit in a whole week.
Something I am going to try going forward is some proactive preparation, particularly not drinking so much and drinking cleaner drinks.
http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2013/02/ten-stepnightlife-preparation-routine.html
Though I'm not a huge fan of Roosh, he does advocate going to higher end bars as well, even with a cover charge. I agree that these places will likely have higher value women and fewer desperate neck bearded losers chasing them round the place.