"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Club Game: Toronto
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Honestly, I think night game is the hardest. I have found that day game and online game are easier. Girls in clubs/bars expect to get hit on and are ready for it. They have the slVt shield up.
Solomon
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1.Buy Bottles
2.Find a girl and pay for hernight
3. makea songand cry about her
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Toronto is still English Canadian (so boring) city
However, the club/lounge/resto scène is exploding.
French Canadians from Québec (montreal) are taking over downtown nightlife
Actually you'll find in Toronto most of Canada unique bar (once in a life time and the only kind in the country). Toronto clubs are starting branch in Montreal (to tell you)
So learn french for social proof
Learn the top new places
Go there, aim for the lay
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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That being said, I firmly believe a confident man can pull anywhere if he's giving off the right vibe. I've pulled in sleepy village pubs before, where there might be two or three attractive women visit in a whole week.
Something I am going to try going forward is some proactive preparation, particularly not drinking so much and drinking cleaner drinks.
http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2013/02/ten-stepnightlife-preparation-routine.html
Though I'm not a huge fan of Roosh, he does advocate going to higher end bars as well, even with a cover charge. I agree that these places will likely have higher value women and fewer desperate neck bearded losers chasing them round the place.