Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Club Game: Toronto

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If anyone has any tips on club game in general or if anyone here is from Toronto and has club game tips or stories to share, post them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sounds promising lol but not at a place where I can just move to a different city so I'll just have to make the best of it. The article is 100 percent accurate though. Where are you from Bradd?
 

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I think there is some links in the DJ Bible about club game. There is also tons of videos on YouTube about it.

Honestly, I think night game is the hardest. I have found that day game and online game are easier. Girls in clubs/bars expect to get hit on and are ready for it. They have the slVt shield up.
 

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Club Game In Toronto (according to a DrakeSOng)

1.Buy Bottles
2.Find a girl and pay for hernight
3. makea songand cry about her
 

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Who in his right mind would go to Toronto? (my montrealer rant)

Toronto is still English Canadian (so boring) city

However, the club/lounge/resto scène is exploding.

French Canadians from Québec (montreal) are taking over downtown nightlife

Actually you'll find in Toronto most of Canada unique bar (once in a life time and the only kind in the country). Toronto clubs are starting branch in Montreal (to tell you)

So learn french for social proof
Learn the top new places
Go there, aim for the lay
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You won't always have much success going to just random bars/clubs. I find that I have a much better time going to events and shows that fit my interests. You get familiar with the scene(s), and it should make it easier, and you find chicks with similar music taste's etc. As you've probably also read a million times: dancing's good, keep clothes clean. Keep frame and C&F attitude. I also got the Toronto scene to work with lol, so its what you make of it. Actually I like how most Toronto advice is to leave and try somewhere else - it would keep getting better with less dudes around, definitely.
 
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The thing to remember about clubs is that at least half the girls there aren't there to meet men. Half are there just for girls' nights out, and some are there with bfs or other men. Some just won't be attracted to you. A good proportion to assume you're working with is 1/3. One thing you will need to do in a club, if you don't already, is dance.

That being said, I firmly believe a confident man can pull anywhere if he's giving off the right vibe. I've pulled in sleepy village pubs before, where there might be two or three attractive women visit in a whole week.

Something I am going to try going forward is some proactive preparation, particularly not drinking so much and drinking cleaner drinks.

http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2013/02/ten-stepnightlife-preparation-routine.html

Though I'm not a huge fan of Roosh, he does advocate going to higher end bars as well, even with a cover charge. I agree that these places will likely have higher value women and fewer desperate neck bearded losers chasing them round the place.
 
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