Hi guys. My 2nd job if i dont head out for a drink with the lads is working in the club as a doorman. Just wondered what your takes are on game as a doorman. What are the usually signals of interest attractive girls give off in the club if they want to be approached or noticed etc? I dont usually speak to girls in the club unless they come up and ask me questions about the toilet or smoking area etc. Im 6’3 10%bf and workout but is it really as simple as looking good and just walking up to a hot girl and saying hi? (Which i usually tell myself no dont im here to work)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Club game being a Doorman
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Your probably will get fired from your job....
By the by... Whatever happened to the bouncer guy who posted here ?... That guys advise was Golden.
*Edit*.... the guy ^ was is cola.... Hasn't been active in a a few months.
By the by... Whatever happened to the bouncer guy who posted here ?... That guys advise was Golden.
*Edit*.... the guy ^ was is cola.... Hasn't been active in a a few months.
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