Hi guys. My 2nd job if i dont head out for a drink with the lads is working in the club as a doorman. Just wondered what your takes are on game as a doorman. What are the usually signals of interest attractive girls give off in the club if they want to be approached or noticed etc? I dont usually speak to girls in the club unless they come up and ask me questions about the toilet or smoking area etc. Im 6’3 10%bf and workout but is it really as simple as looking good and just walking up to a hot girl and saying hi? (Which i usually tell myself no dont im here to work)
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Club game being a Doorman
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
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Your probably will get fired from your job....
By the by... Whatever happened to the bouncer guy who posted here ?... That guys advise was Golden.
*Edit*.... the guy ^ was is cola.... Hasn't been active in a a few months.
By the by... Whatever happened to the bouncer guy who posted here ?... That guys advise was Golden.
*Edit*.... the guy ^ was is cola.... Hasn't been active in a a few months.
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