Hi guys. My 2nd job if i dont head out for a drink with the lads is working in the club as a doorman. Just wondered what your takes are on game as a doorman. What are the usually signals of interest attractive girls give off in the club if they want to be approached or noticed etc? I dont usually speak to girls in the club unless they come up and ask me questions about the toilet or smoking area etc. Im 6’3 10%bf and workout but is it really as simple as looking good and just walking up to a hot girl and saying hi? (Which i usually tell myself no dont im here to work)
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Club game being a Doorman
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Your probably will get fired from your job....
By the by... Whatever happened to the bouncer guy who posted here ?... That guys advise was Golden.
*Edit*.... the guy ^ was is cola.... Hasn't been active in a a few months.
By the by... Whatever happened to the bouncer guy who posted here ?... That guys advise was Golden.
*Edit*.... the guy ^ was is cola.... Hasn't been active in a a few months.
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