Hi guys. My 2nd job if i dont head out for a drink with the lads is working in the club as a doorman. Just wondered what your takes are on game as a doorman. What are the usually signals of interest attractive girls give off in the club if they want to be approached or noticed etc? I dont usually speak to girls in the club unless they come up and ask me questions about the toilet or smoking area etc. Im 6’3 10%bf and workout but is it really as simple as looking good and just walking up to a hot girl and saying hi? (Which i usually tell myself no dont im here to work)
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Club game being a Doorman
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Your probably will get fired from your job....
By the by... Whatever happened to the bouncer guy who posted here ?... That guys advise was Golden.
*Edit*.... the guy ^ was is cola.... Hasn't been active in a a few months.
By the by... Whatever happened to the bouncer guy who posted here ?... That guys advise was Golden.
*Edit*.... the guy ^ was is cola.... Hasn't been active in a a few months.
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