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kickureface

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what kind of genre is it? mostly just hip hop?
where can i find it too?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Depends on what type of clubs you are talking about. Is it a Hispanic club? Hip-Hop club?
 

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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At least for me, every high school dance was a lot of current, popular rap, with an occasional classic song and some songs to slow dance to.

Some of the following will probably be played:
Akon - I Wanna Love You
Akon - Smack That
Justin Timberlake - SexyBack
Ludacris - Money Maker
etc...
 

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yea i was thinking the same thing. but i was just wondering if there was like a list of good songs like that
 

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You need to take some dancing lessons....
 

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Look at the playlists on hip-hop radio stations' websites, many of those songs will be played. Double C has a good start for you.
 

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One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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but i was just wondering if there was like a list of good songs like that
If the music they play at your highschool is the same as what they played during our dances, there is something seriously wrong with your music taste. It's all top 40 mass-produced testosteroneless whiny bimbo bull****. Google the previous sentence for a track list. :p
 

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kickureface said:
ahah i really dont think we dance to classical music :p
You do, you just don't realize it. Modern electronic dance music (particularly house and trance) is basically classical music updated by technology, audio samples, a thumping beat, and the whole structure of songs is based upon classical music theory. It's about moving people through different streams of emotional states through instrumentation. Surely you were referring to classical classical music, but if you wish to appreciate dance music (and I'm not referring to top 40 but true club music) then recognizing this distinction is paramount.

To answer your question, there are five basic types of electronic dance music (EDM): breakbeat, techno, tribal, house, and trance. To each their hundreds of subgenres. Hip hop is not dance music and is in its own category, in my opinion, and is fundamentally different; EDM is melody-based with usually minimal lyrics whereas you listen to hip hop for its lyrics and hardly pay attention to the melodies (usually).
 
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