"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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kickureface

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what kind of genre is it? mostly just hip hop?
where can i find it too?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Depends on what type of clubs you are talking about. Is it a Hispanic club? Hip-Hop club?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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At least for me, every high school dance was a lot of current, popular rap, with an occasional classic song and some songs to slow dance to.

Some of the following will probably be played:
Akon - I Wanna Love You
Akon - Smack That
Justin Timberlake - SexyBack
Ludacris - Money Maker
etc...
 

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yea i was thinking the same thing. but i was just wondering if there was like a list of good songs like that
 

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You need to take some dancing lessons....
 

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Look at the playlists on hip-hop radio stations' websites, many of those songs will be played. Double C has a good start for you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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but i was just wondering if there was like a list of good songs like that
If the music they play at your highschool is the same as what they played during our dances, there is something seriously wrong with your music taste. It's all top 40 mass-produced testosteroneless whiny bimbo bull****. Google the previous sentence for a track list. :p
 

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kickureface said:
ahah i really dont think we dance to classical music :p
You do, you just don't realize it. Modern electronic dance music (particularly house and trance) is basically classical music updated by technology, audio samples, a thumping beat, and the whole structure of songs is based upon classical music theory. It's about moving people through different streams of emotional states through instrumentation. Surely you were referring to classical classical music, but if you wish to appreciate dance music (and I'm not referring to top 40 but true club music) then recognizing this distinction is paramount.

To answer your question, there are five basic types of electronic dance music (EDM): breakbeat, techno, tribal, house, and trance. To each their hundreds of subgenres. Hip hop is not dance music and is in its own category, in my opinion, and is fundamentally different; EDM is melody-based with usually minimal lyrics whereas you listen to hip hop for its lyrics and hardly pay attention to the melodies (usually).
 
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