"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Clothing ...what to buy?

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DonJuan_Dnb

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Whaddup fellas...

This is my first post so I just want to say hey to everyone here. Now that the cheesy bit is done, im going shoppin in a bit to get some new shirts, either T-shirts, long sleeve tee's and maybe a button up. I should also say this, since i got to college ive put on almost 15lbs of muscle. Currently im 5'11" and about 198lbs and im lookin to keep bulking till about february so I can be as big as possible for summer. Only prob with this has been that i now only have 3 t-shirts that fit me lol.

What would be some suggestions for clothing by forum members? BTW, ive put my goals in my sig..

--DonJuan_Dnb
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ace_McGregor

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Get some stuff from Banana Republic or Nordstrom. Their stuff is expensive, but atleast get a shirt or two for your weekend game from them. These shirts cost more because there is more detail to them. Chicks will notice all those fancy fabrics, colors, stitching, etc., that guys don't notice. Stay away from old navy if you can, their stuff will just make you blend in with the crowd. You want to stand out from the crowd and show women you take pride in your appearance.
 
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No Nordstrom in Canada... where are you in Canada, DJD?

The more money you spend the better, obviously, but there are lots of stores with retail outlets out there.

If you're looking to attract women it might depend what kind of women you're looking for. That hipster artsy chick is really not going to be impressed with some $89 polo that you bought at Banana Republic (not that their stuff is bad it's just aimed at a preppier market).

If you have a female friend with some style, take her with you clothes shopping. This is the biggest advice I can give you, because guys are notoriously bad with finding clothes that fit.
 
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Depends on where you live and how old you are.
If you are in college, Abercrombie and Fitch and Hollister a great way to go. You want to be stylish, casual, and fun looking. Sometimes guys who are way too dressy/metro come off as weird.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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